Thursday, September 18, 2014

the haps

Hey there! It sure has been a while since I last wrote. The time goes by so fast, and the guilt builds walls so high. I think I'm still struggling fiddling with the focus of this blog. So until I find it, I hope you enjoy my shifting interests, babblings, and ramblings.
Here's a quick update on what's been happening in our lives: not much! I spend my days singing and dancing to keep Maki happy; cooking and cleaning to keep Husband happy and eking out a little me-time in between to keep Mama sane.

Happy Fall! Dear Summer has gone with no hope of its lingering around in this part of the country. We had a fun, but overall uneventful summer. It was fun playing and exploring outside with Maki everyday. Each day brought us new adventures and discoveries. While Maki was discovering the elements and bustling world around him, Mama was re-discovering all of the many things that we adults take for granted. {When was the last time a fire engine's horn put a smile on your face?}
We spent a lot of time going to the city parks, in our backyard and going for neighborhood walks. Even the days, when I'd rather just lay around in bed, I forced myself to get up and out of the house for Maki's benefit. It's a constant reminder that my life is no longer mine alone. I have to be cognizant that everyday is an opportunity to color and shape my little guy's world. I'm sure I'll need even more reminding of this as the temperature continues to drop around here.

Maki Updates:
We went to NYC to visit my family in July. Maki is a true blooded New Yorker. Something about that city makes him come alive. He's so at home there, it warms my heart. While in New York, Maki had his first accident and subsequent hospital visit! He was running in the apartment, slipped on a rug and busted his teeth through his lip. He had to get four stitches! We're still a bit shell shocked about it. Every time he runs, I imagine him toppling face first. It doesn't help that he has indeed toppled face first a few times since the incident, scoring him bloody gums and a busted lip. It's so scary. I'm just like, "How am I supposed to keep you alive for eighteen years!?" Everyone else, is just like, "Oh, girl, this is the first of many.

Maki still breastfeeds. He eats some solids, but I'd say his diet is about 70/30 breast milk to solids. I'm really proud that we've been able to breastfeed this long. Even though at times (mainly in the middle of a sleepless night), I kind of wish we done or on our way to being done. But I can say that I truly enjoy it. I'll probably be sad when it ends, but for now as long as I am able to be blessed to continue breastfeeding, I will. I hope that he weans himself, because I don't even have the energy to take his "bobby" away from him.

We've been potty training. No pressure, just introducing him to the pot, and encouraging him to voice when he has to go. He's coming around, but like I said, we're not pressuring him.

Well that's the latest around here. As Fall begins to settle in for good, I'll be looking for fun indoor activities to keep us busy on days when it's too cold to go outside. Hopefully I'll find some fun things to share with you here.
Post soon.

3 comments:

  1. When you wrote that your life is no longer yours alone it resonated with me. I am only a puppy mom but when you said "everyday is an opportunity to color and shape my little guy's world" I was reminded of a spreadsheet I once kept for my now 1 year old puppy: the spreadsheet noted how many times I introduced my pup to new sounds, textures, & situations.

    ...I think I may become one of those parents who have charts posted around the house noting which date certain milestones must be met. A Tiger mom of sorts. You seem pro-active but more relaxed than that. Are you generally more go with the flow or is your mommy style different from your pre-mommy attitude?

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  2. When Maki was first born, I kept a chart of feedings and diaper changes, but that didn't make it long. I am a charter more in my head than in reality. And this ends up looking like little notes written on scrap paper stuffed in an empty scrapbook that I vow to finish before he's off to college.

    I think I'm more of a go with the flow mommy with Tiger mom ambitions. :) This is a great question, and really has me thinking of my parenting style. I will have to write a post on this topic. Thank you for the comment and inspiration.

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  3. Hey!! I've been looking for a new blog post from you ;) glad your back! Congrats on s BFing! Though I totally feel you on the sleepless night, I love it too. Sorry about your sweet boys accident! We haven't had anything too bad as of yet, but I'm sure its coming haha

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